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Travel Date Quotient

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Note that the two messages from him where 3 days apart. Go figure. Here is where you don't want to end up. The conversation is going well, things in common, and HEY! Lets get out of your comfort zone and meet a stranger (and that in itself is a huge obstacle for myself). And then you wait two days to have figured out that the 'travel date quotient' has been filled. Hows that to make one feel great? If you actually think meeting up would be great, don't drop the bomb of 'travel date quotient' filled - cause that did nothing to me but frustrate me (and my friends, who are you kidding - of course I share the experiences) and make me feel like I was just a back-up plan, and no woman wants to feel like a second choice, online dating or not. And I'm not saying that, if you're talking to me I only expect you to talk to me - hell, we all know I can talk to multiple guys at the same time, so why can't a guy talk to multiple girls at the same time...
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Down to Bang?

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This actually happened.This was one of the first messages received this year... What is it about men who actually, LEGIT, only think with their penis. I know that men actually do (usually only) think with their penis, but can you hold a decent conversation for once? Treat a woman like she's a woman, not a just a piece of meat. The worst part about these messages, is you KNOW that it has worked in the past - or why would they continue trying it?  So what women out there are letting men treat them like shit? What is it about someone that brings out that personality, and think it's okay? Gotta give him credit for coming back with a smartass remark though, but that doesn't fix the fact that the damage has already been done... moving on.
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Introduction

There's something about internet dating that is both insanely easy, and extremely daunting at the same time... In this day in age, if you're single, you're almost expected to use internet dating to meet people. The 'good-old-days' of meeting people while out and about in the world, or through mutual friends seems like a long way off. For anyone that is even just REMOTELY an introvert (or introvert-like), this is an extremely daunting proposal. And yet, there's something easy and almost cathartic about meeting a complete stranger and having a (normal) conversation with someone you've never met... ... or so you think. I am an introvert. I dislike meeting complete strangers, and I have had the same small group of friends for years - it's hard to meet people, and seemingly even harder to met reasonable people. This is where internet dating comes in - here's a platform, meant to help introduce you to new people, whether that be because you ...
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